I'm with you Kim.

DH and I are head over heels crazy in love. Sometimes I feel ppl think we only work BECAUSE we live apart most of the time. But its not like that at all!! We do struggle and we find it really hard at times, but we are both determined and dedicated to eachother and have to put in that extra little bit to make it work. It's not by choice, if we could have it the other way we would! but this is what we needed to do to get the money we needed to have our baby, we wayed it all up and worked out it was what we needed to do. there was no other way.

In saying that, I can't really see it being an option for us when Spock comes. which does kind of put us in a bind, because of money issues, and we don't know what will happen when I have to return to work, which there is a high chance that will be away from home again =(